Distracted or Determined? Managing Life’s Interruptions
Let's be honest, distractions are everywhere. They're the siren song of our digital age, the unexpected detour on our road to success. But do we have our hands firmly on the wheel, or are we letting distractions drive us around?
Last week, I thought I had it all figured out. My routines were in place, my goals were clear. Then, Tuesday happened. A canceled appointment threw me off course, and before I knew it, I was binge-watching House of the Dragon instead of sticking to my self-care plan. This little side quest took me off my designated path, leading to a bumpy road of staying up too late, struggling to wake up the next morning, feeling unprepared, and being less productive than I’d have liked. Losing sleep made it harder to be my best self for my family, my business, and most importantly, myself!
It's easy to get sidetracked in this modern age. Like billboards along a highway, distractions are everywhere. Binge-watching guilty pleasure shows, doom-scrolling on social media, falling down Google rabbit holes, or spacing out on idle phone games—I’ve been led astray by them all! While there’s nothing inherently wrong with these things (just don’t take my dragons away!), I've learned that the key to thriving in a distraction-filled world without losing sight of your goals is through distraction management. Creating a plan to prepare for inevitable distractions can be a roadmap that keeps you on track to your destination!
Here's What I've Discovered:
Distractions are everywhere. From phone notifications to unexpected meetings, they can pop up at any time. Expect distractions, and they’re less likely to catch you off guard!
Everyone struggles with distractions. Whether you have ADHD or not, dealing with distractions is a universal challenge. In our tech-filled, always-available lives, even focused individuals encounter distractions.
Understanding your triggers is key. Set aside time for self-awareness. Notice what typically pulls you off course. Are you more distracted by internal thoughts or external stimuli? Observe how much time you spend on your phone or binge-watching Netflix. Set aside judgment, but be curious about what takes up your time and attention.
Distractions won't disappear. You can learn to manage them more effectively using self-awareness, planning, and intentional action.
Roadmap to Managing Distractions:
Self-Awareness
Notice and manage distractions. Be aware of when distractions arise and take steps to refocus. If you get off track, say it out loud: “I’m distracted, what did I intend to be doing right now?”
Reflect on your patterns. Identify your common distractions and when they're most likely to occur. For me, the end of the workday is when I’m most prone to give in to distractions.
Be aware of what makes you vulnerable: Feelings of fatigue, mental drain, or emotional overwhelm create a perfect storm, making it more likely to get blown off course.
Planning
Schedule effectively. With a clear understanding of how distractions impact you, you can better plan your day, set boundaries, and create focused work time at your optimal times.
Use Visuals. Sticky notes, screensavers, or signs in strategic places can help remind you of your goals and values. These visuals act as tangible prompts that realign your actions with your intentions.
Use Alarms and Timers. Set alarms or timers at regular intervals and hold check-ins with yourself. When it goes off, ask yourself if you’re doing what you set out to do. If not, use it as a cue to get back on course.
Intentional Action
Remove unnecessary notifications. Notifications are incredibly effective at getting our attention! Most notifications aren’t essential, and removing them reduces distractions immensely.
Remove clutter. In your environment, on your technology—Instagram, Facebook, unused apps, open browser tabs, sticky notes. Clutter breeds distraction. Clear your space (physical and digital) to unclutter your mind!
Find an accountability partner. Share your goal to minimize distractions with a trusted friend, co-worker, or family member. Ask them to check in and give gentle nudges if they see you veering off course.
Take intentional time to enjoy your favorite distractions. By scheduling time in advance to watch my favorite fantasy show, I take control of my time without feeling deprived of my guilty pleasure!
Remember, you're not alone on this journey to bypass distractions. By understanding your triggers and implementing effective strategies, you can put yourself back in the driver’s seat and reach your goals.
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Your coach,
Lori
